Learn from me :) part 2

Part2: Brainpower!!

Unlike many girls, (fortunately) I took up a motivational course when I was 14 and the company is called Adam Khoo. Since then I started to believe in brainpower. I was very superstitious and judgemental before that. So I'm very very grateful that I get the chance to attend the course, for free! And this course makes me think of life in a positive way.

It was 3 days course and we slept in the mosque. I know... I know... You guys must be thinking that I'm pulling your legs, but you see the organization that sponsored about 30 teenagers and I was a Muslim organisation. So we have to be in the mosque for some reason *shrugs*

Mr Amin was one of the facilitators there. I remembered when he told us that being a successful motivational speaker is not easy because you have to do something inspiring or motivating like surviving from a tsunami or even escaped death. For normal people like you and I? Well... You have to be great at speech to be a motivational speaker @_@

Mr Amin also boast alot about his pay, it seems that whole experience we were with him, he's earning 10 cents per second!!! But then again, maybe he's lying :D

I still remember a story that Mr Amin told us... A group of scientists is trying to test the capability of the NBA player and they hired 2 teams to participate. Team red were given a pill called caffeine and team blue were given sleeping pill the night before their match. And obviously in the end of the match at the very next day team red could not perform and team blue performs very well. Team red told the scientists that they were unable to sleep right after the "caffeine" pill was given to them last night and that leads to the lack of sleep on the next day. And team blue said that the "sleeping pill" seemed to get them ready on the next day.
The scientists then announced that they have crossed labelled the pills. Which means team red actually had sleeping pill and team blue had caffeine. This experiment clearly shows that brainpower takes a full control of your mind and body. This is also called psychology.

Recently my brother broke down because he still couldnt decide what type of career he should pursue in and he is afraid that he made a wrong choice and not be successful. I told him the story above and told him not to ever start his sentences by "what if...", " I don't think I..." or "I'm scared that I could not..." instead he should start by saying " I will try my best...", "I'm going to..." and more. By changing the structure of your word actually changes the message that you are sending to your brain and you realised that you will get stronger emotionally and psychologically :)

If you keep up this habit people will start to look up to you, they are going to be mesmerized by your confidence and some might even mark you as a smart person :)

Learn from me ;) part 1

Yo peeps!! This is something new from me that I would like to share with you guys :)
It's called "learn from me". Basically it's internal issues that we always dealt with life.
And so long as I have issues, I will post them thus you will get to see more post from me ;D

Part 1: if you gonna keep it, it WILL burst!

Remember when you were a kid and you tried so hard to impress someone like your mother, your cousins, your teacher and etc... Well it definitely doesn't stop there does it? You realised that you have more and more people to impress as you grow older! Your admirer, lecturer, parents, boss, friends and up to the point that you wanna kill yourself. You most of the time get disappointed cause mostly people don't appreciate the things that you did. Worse still when you got to know that somebody else is better than you. You are not happy with people mistreating you or took full advantage of you but really, most of the time you just retain that frustration, sadness, or even resentment. Now you learn from me. Rule no 1, never keep any negative feeling in your heart. Keeping them are as equal as storing venom in your system! You should forgive and forget about it, let is pass by you especially when those people are your loved ones :) talk to them about your issues and try to connect with each other thru interests (maybe).
What if that person is no longer a person who you wanna impress? Like your stinking boss or a paranoid teacher or even someone with a title of a complete bitch? Like my ex manaxxx. Then plan B might work perfectly for you :) it's called giving a piece of your mind! These people would not shut up unless you stand up for yourself. Cause they are feeling superior when they are around you and will utilize you down to your bone marrow! My advice is easy, take a step back and tell yourself,"wait a second! Who the fuck are you to depict? I'm so worth it that I don't need to impress anyone!" you will definitely feel good bout yourself and you'll slowly get the courage to actually speak up :). Now this is not called being rude, it's called being straight forwad. I'm not asking you to be too outspoken, but Im asking you to have your own mindset instead of anybody putting their own individual opinion in your head! It's not healthy and you don't have to solve a science rocket to get to the conclusion, right? Anyway take everything in moderation. Just speak your mind of when necessary cause I do had a few very outspoken friends that are not successful in their social life due to their snappy nature. So yeah that's all for this post and I hope you guys gained something from reading this and I'll see ya when I see ya :D

Love,

SLAPS-HEAD-QILLY!

Stupid people !

1. Stupid boy!
Look into my eyes act like you're gonna
Start a conversation when you are just plain
Retarded !
I waved at you and you look away PURPOSELY???
Don't you dare looking me up again !
Once is enough to blew me off !
But I gave you more than one chance !
Snob bloke ! I wish you death :)

2. Stupid girl ! You are just brushing away
Opportunities like dust mites !
You ought to know that you need financial support
But I guess kau lebih selesa menyusahkan mak
kau yg tengah sakit !
Kalau kau anak aku, aku da campak pat laut
sebelom kau tahu berenang !

What's left is only a lonely heart

Yellow!
It's been quite a while since I blogged.
So you wanna know what's up??
Well busy with work and politics
And keeping myself Alive
And impressing my boss
And deciding wether a car license is important
Right now
And even if it does, can I afford??
Which license should I be taking?
Auto? Manual??
So okay license can put on hold,
I'd rather go for studies.
What course?
Which school?
Private?
Can I trust them?
How bout my long term dream?
Which is to have my own business btw
What business should I start with?
Bags and accessories? Fashion? Sell vegetables maybe?
How's the selling liquidity?
What about the market competition?
Will it be an annual profit?
And what about the workout I've worked on,
Are there results?
Will I ever be able to put on bikini?
Cause that's my short term wish...
And how about my love life?
Is he going to be my husband?
Is it the right choice?
Is he going to be faithful?
Is it true when someone said that people change?
Is it for the better or worse?
Who is this 'someone'?

So yeah,
I had all the doubts in the world when it
Comes to my future.
You can't have the best of both world.
And I hope that I'm not being ironic.
;)

Love,

SLAPS-HEAD-QILLY!

honey, sorry i cried.

ten, ten, TEN!!!!
kay random :))

yesterday had my quality time while waiting for my dearest.
i read at library,
went for sky gazing,
and then head for a run at stadium.
boring much~ but i enjoyed myself (:

then the night falls and finally get to see him.
we went to epi centre and get my ipod touch.
thank you dear for forking out some. ILY

LOVE
SLAPS-HEAD-QILLY!

awak weird lah!

ammak! just now ada laki cute panggil kiter!
first2, i went out of the toilet then i saw him waiting.
ala.. kiut miut camni confirm waiting for a girl.
so i look at him briefly and walk away.
then i heard him tweet.
and from the shop's window, i can see him following.
at that moment, i hate myself cause i was wearing alot of gold!
what if he want to kidnap me? my god!!!
then i saw him make a u-turn towards starbucks and staring at me
while i go inside my shop.
hahaha!

then then he walk past my shop and wave at me.
pastu patah balik doing the thumbs up motion.
i go near the door getting ready to ask him directly what does he want
then, die diri pat luar kedai and ask loudly, NOMBOR?
i just jeling at him.
cute guy asking my number eh?
Ya Allah, whats your catch?
then i decided to call someone single and ask her
permission to pass her number to him, if he ask again la...
sekiut mane pon die, i still prefer my honey! nyeheh
but so far, cam tak kacau lagi je..
rezeki kau la girl... He decide :)

love,
SLAPS-HEAD-QILLY!

ps: i think he paiseh, cause i jeling at him! muahahaha

harlowwwwww

hahahahahha! enjoy

love,
SLAPS-HEAD-QILLY!